G!D gave me a chance to have a set of leading questions. to you, who are alien to me, or foreign or unknown to me: in love of G!D, first and foremost, then, to love G!D - who hath called us to peace, a peace the world does not give - and to do something like loving G!D, that is, to love the unknown as the you - that is, to love neighbour as yourself - to love the other, who is unknown to me, as myself, giving you what G!D has given me, as freely as G!D has given me through the glorious riches of Christ Jesus.

three steps every meeting [in no particular order of importance]

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1. Share. You don't have to if you don't wanna. (Buddy: listen and ask questions to clarify, if needed. And of course, how to listen is a skill altogether delightful to practise.)
2. Suggest. You can, if you want, ask your buddy for specific advice or help. (Buddy: offer ideas, options, and suggestions.)
3. Set action. What will I work on this coming week-day or week-end or what. G!D knows what time measure you use, and I do not know. Yes, G!D knows, and I do not know. (Buddy: check that goal is something you can verify)

With G!D's help, I have an example of how to do the above. It is that which follows:

share

• what progress or effort did I make this week? as it is written in Scriptures: I saw my co-worker eating and drinking with drunkards, and I have admonished him... them... her. I have sternly and clearly warned my co-workers to turn away from godless chatter, and those who have opposing ideas with so-called 'knowledge' or false knowledge - yes, even those who have spent a large portion of their [G!D-provided] lives steeping themselves in false knowledge. I have warned my co-workers to turn away from those kinds of people. Also, I have pointed out the hypocrispy of people un-abashedly, without shame, even [the hypocrispy of] those who call themselves 'your mother' or ' your friend' or 'your father'. Does not the tempter who has the name of Satan in Scriptures (Satan, Shaitan, also known as Belial) call himself... herself... themself... the Angel of Light? So, what does one, who associates himself or herself with the Anointed One who calls himself the Son of Man, (the Christ, in other words) have to do with the tempter who calls himself... herself... themself... the Angel of Light? Separate yourself from them. Come out from among them. Believers and unbelievers were originally unsuitable for each other. what harmony does the Christ have with the one who calls himself the Angel of Light: the tempter?
• What did I achieve? I don't care for anything that the LORD G!D does not give me. We will be content with food and drink. (as written in Scriptures). Content with godliness. What did achieve? G!D forbid that I should glory in myself, save in the one eternal sacrifice of the One who has the Name, Jesus, the Christ, through whom I am crucified unto the world, and the world unto me. :-D Did I achieve or hit the goal I set last week or some time ago? This question I decline answer. However, what does not work for me, might help you in G!D-knows-what you-are-doing-and-I-do-not-know. Err. Well, I took up a habit of smoking cigarettes. With the help of G!D, I have a testimony that, as surely as the LORD lives, I did not resume smoking after I decided to stop or quit the habit. Wow, that makes me feel really good. Thanks, G!D, for believing in me, and enabling me to very joyfully witness your works in my life, and enabling me to be among the Believers. to G!D be the glory for-ever and ever. Amen.